"When we were referred to a reproductive endocrinologist, it hit me like a ton of bricks. I didn't feel like I belonged in any infertility support group because we already had one child. I felt alone and afraid to connect at risk of seeming ungrateful for the success we'd had before. I opened Instagram one day and searched for "secondary infertility," and Holding Both was the first result. I loved Allie's content and opted to join her first support group in February. It was the best decision I ever made. Allie connected me with other moms who knew what it was like. She offered a loving, safe space to be vunerable and work through the complexities of secondary infertility. This group is still my first stop when I have a hard day or good news to share. I don't know where I'd be without these group mates turned friends!."

"The Holding Both Secondary Support Circle has been a light in my life over some of the most difficult months. I met women who actually understand what I'm going through, something I didn't have from friends before this. I looked forward to each Thursday night, knowing I could vent without judgement, laugh way too much, and be understood. I've made friends for life through this process, and I cannot imagine how different the past year would've looked without Allie and this group in my life!"